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Q. How can you, the student, keep open communication with your parents?
A. Provide them regular updates, i.e. telephone calls, written letters sent by regular mail, text messages; and e-mails. Just keeping your parent(s) informed of your activities relative to both academics and social. Regular updates should be at the very least monthly, do not let too much time elapse between communications.
In your correspondence answer the questions: How are you doing in school? Keeping up with studies; grades. How are you doing? (Emotionally, physically, socially, etc..) [Recognizing they are on your side and desire the best for you, be as open as you feel they will understand. Be honest.You may find them more supportive than you might think. Remember they brought you up to this point and they know you best and love you most.]
Q. What are the challenges you are facing?
A. If you are struggling with a subject, tell them. This may have the positive effect of softening the blow when informing them of a lower grade in a specific subject than expected. You may find they will make helpful suggestions to you.[Remember, they have had more life experience than you have and our parents often surprise us with their knowledge, even if they were not educated to the level that you are attaining.]
Q. What are the successes you are having?
A. They really enjoy hearing (reading) that you are growing in various areas of your life. Tell them the truth, do not exaggerate. As some of your parents are investing some, if not all, your tuition costs. They can rejoice with you, as they learn of the areas that you are excelling.
Q. How should I receive criticism from my parents?
A. Show them the utmost respect. Listen. A good way of looking at their comments is to remember they have your best interest in mind. They are cheering your every success and giving recommendations for areas that need to grow. Remember these are very formative years, you are growing and maturing, and there will be bumps along the way. "Failure is the first step in achieving success." Much is learned from setbacks. Try not to EMOTIONALLY respond to your parents criticism. Or respond in anger. Acknowledge that you heard (read) their input (suggestions) with respect. Modify your studies as necessary.
God gave us two ears - listen twice


God gave us one mouth - speak once (sparingly)
Give thought, before you respond. You are showing maturity and respectful honor to your parent(s).
Q. Should I tell them of a friendship with the opposite sex?
A. Keeping secrets from parents is a heavy burden to carry. By being open with them and maintaining your friendship with the opposite sex on a friend basis. You may be allowed to preserve the friendship in openness, freeing your mind to concentrate on your studies. Introducing your friend to your parents may keep your relationship honorable.
If  your parents are emphatically against all friendships with the opposite male or female during this period of time, listen to them. They know you better than you know yourself. They love you and desire for you to succeed, both in school and in life. Because I honored my parents by not marrying my High School sweetheart before I graduated from college, I was able to complete a Business Degree in University and went on to become a successful business owner and family man.   
Q. As a student, I believe I am old enough to make my own decisions, but my parents do not see me as an adult. How can I, the student, receive my parents recommendations, but still make my own decisions?
A. It is best to get your parents recommendations on all major decisions, before making them, especially those that will effect your future.
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